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3% to 15%

The share of US men with no close friends rose from 3% to 15%

The share of US men reporting no close friends rose from 3% in 1990 to 15% in 2021 — a roughly five-fold rise — though headline loneliness measures still show men and women at broadly equal levels.

Partly true

This figure comes from our fact-check: Is there a male loneliness epidemic?

The number

The share of US men reporting no close friends rose from 3% in 1990 to 15% in 2021 — a roughly five-fold rise — according to the American Institute for Boys and Men's review of US datasets including the 2021 American Perspectives Survey (over the same period, the figure for women went from 2% to 10%). [1]

the loneliness epidemic is not a blanket crisis for men in particular

American Institute for Boys and Men (2025)
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What it does and doesn't establish

Male friendship networks really have thinned faster than women's over three decades — that specific male deficit is well documented. What the number does not establish is a distinctly male loneliness epidemic: on headline measures US men and women report loneliness at broadly equal levels, and the same AIBM review concluded the crisis is not male-specific. Full context: Is there a male loneliness epidemic?

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  1. [1]Male loneliness and isolation: What the data shows · American Institute for Boys and Men · 2025-08-20 archived ↗

Evidence last checked: 2026-07-28

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The Fieldnote Desk. (2026). The share of US men with no close friends rose from 3% to 15%. manospherecult.com. https://manospherecult.com/research/statistics/male-friendlessness-rise

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